Pregnancy after miscarriage or loss ~ October 2010

[forshelby]

Angelicdragon - Welcome! Those numbers look pretty good to me, but I'm no dr, hehe. So sorry to hear how many losses you've endured, how heartbreaking. You're unbelievably strong to find the courage to try again and again the way you have. well done and here's hoping for a happy ending for you

Ferrals - I'm also planning to stock up on huggies nappies too.. I've seen some good specials too, I suppose it's time I get my butt into gear and buy some! Hooray for your little lady being a fidget fart, lol. I'll try to find a way to post my pics in a non fb style

AFM - Totally pumped up about my cute new maxi dress I got today.... Posted in the B/buddies thread also about my pg rage while shopping, LOL. I'd better get up off the couch soon and get motivated to make these cupcakes! I have to make 44 cupcakes and ice and decorate them all ready for tomorrow's 21st. Goodness me I am a dedicated friend, hehehehe.

[Tegam]

Hi Jude and welcome!

Ferrals: Nappies - what a bargin~

Forshelby: 44 cupcakes, get cracking girl!

AFM: 32 weeks today. Having a nice high energy period at the moment. House looks great hehe, helps that all the kids are sleeping well! Hope evryone is well!

[Melster]

angelicdragon.....oh cool.....it will be so good to go through it with someone thats close to my date.........im sorry about all ur angels......i just got pregnant after 4mths..after my miscarriage...im going to the drs next week...

Ferrals...its so good when u get a good bargain like that

forshelby...i couldnt see ur photos even tho im on facebook...im bummed...

Atm....im going through that stage were i wonder if everything is ok...its just sometimes the symptoms seem to go a bit or its a bit different and it freaks me out.......and then my brain starts ticking...its horrible....i had a headache today so im sure it should be ok.......or i pray anyways......

[Tegam]

Atm....im going through that stage were i wonder if everything is ok...its just sometimes the symptoms seem to go a bit or its a bit different and it freaks me out.......and then my brain starts ticking...its horrible....i had a headache today so im sure it should be ok.......or i pray anyways......

We are all nutters, thats why we post here cause we all understand! Hugs huni!

[forshelby]

Tegam - Actually I ended up with 46. Agh! Happy 32 weeks to you

Melster - I'm bummed too! I'll work out how to do it another way. Eventually. Your symptoms will probably come and go a bit, and will definitely change as your pg progresses. I know it's nerve wracking now, but it does get easier. If you need to have a little mini-freakout, this is the place for it hehe.

[dory]

Jude - wow sweet blossom - it is AWESOME - that you've gotten your BFP... it is soooooooo good to see you in here. I know it's a hard journey now, but you know that too. The ladies in here are lovely - they really helped me through my most recent preg, which surprised me by actually resulting in a live take home child - our precious baby bear Hannah. Wishing you a healthy and relatively manageable pregnancy. This is the place to let the crazy lady come out. Even though I can't always drop in as much as I'd like to, know that my thoughts are with you and I send you all my strength....

Tegam - 32 weeks - loving the energy burst....

Forshelby - stop fishing for compliments and go bake those cup cakes... PML... I bet that they are just scrummy and the bestest every cup cakes.

Ferals - glad your little girl is a disco bunny!

Melster - hang in there and you will get through the tough times....

Kit - sending you and George and Tiger my love. I had something I wanted to say but have forgotten it, bugger.

All good here. Learning lots and loving it. There are tears too - of happiness, of sadness for my angels, of frustration (at not knowing the answers and not seeming to be able to comfort Hannah at times) and of exhaustion ( I thought preg induced sleep disturbance and deprivation were bad) and also exhiliration at finally getting the chance to do this parenting a live child caper. It is so amazing. Have finally gotten my act together and have an appointment at the memorial gardens to finalise the wording on the plaques for Nicholas and Sophie and set a date for the ceremony. I guess I never got around to it before because I thought we would just have to do it again..... the ceremony won't be til next year, as it takes 12 weeks for the plaques to come through. It's kind of poingant that Hannah will be there. Anyway, I just wanted to share that I finally feel ready to do that...

[Tegam]

46Ahhhh Forshelby what maths did you do at school

Dory dory dory, so glad that you can still find the time to drop in and share your beautiful words. Reading what you wrote to Jude...well it was just so you! I think that it is very special that Hannah will get to be there, I still will never know were you get your strength from. It makes perfect sense why you wouldnt want to do the ceremony because you just thought that you'd have to do it again but wow that breaks my heart! I would love to know the worlding you chose if its not too personal and will look forward to hearing how your special day turns out. Will you have family there or just DH and Hannah??

Was it you that mentioned that you have been given the OK to have another baby? Are you already thinking of that? Do you think you would have more strength now (if thats possible) or do you think it would be harder to have another high risk pregnancy?

Now enough about you, hows your DH? How does he feel about this whole new world??

AFM: Enjoying some Darrell lea orange choc balls and having my feet up! Great to have all this energy but i do sadly get too many reminders that i am 'heaverly' pregnant now Feeling the pressure if you know what i mean