I did my first scan today at 19 weeks, they found a diluted kidney which in itself is a small problem, but of greater concern to them is that it means that my baby now has a one in 200 chance of having Downs.

I’m so confused and don’t know what to do.. I know I don’t want a CVS as there is a one in 200 chance of it causing a miscarriage, so they have offered me another scan at 28 weeks to see if anything has changed.

So, now what. I sit here and wait and stress? I feel so alone and ashamed, I’m so ashamed to even tell my family. Is anyone else is this position? Has anyone else been in this position? Can you share your story?