Jessy143 - I just wanted to add that if you really don't think you could terminate the pregnancy no matter what they tell you, then don't go ahead with the amnio. Also, wanted to mention a great article written on diagnostic testing by GP and Ob Dr Sarah j Buckley (she has a book, called gentle birth, genter mothering, but article may also be on her website sarahjbuckley.com.au)

A friend of mine had good TS measurements but bloodwork of 1:300. She agonised over whether to do the test, then went ahead with it - but she was so stressed and anxious, I was concerned that this was worse for her and her baby's health than anything. Turned out to be a negative result, so all was well. But it really makes you wonder is it worth going through all of this - in our mothers day there was no such technology available, so you just accepted what life gave you.

All the very best - I hope you can update us soon with some good news.