With #1 - we definately didnt want to know. It didnt matter either way and we were excited about the baby if it was a boy or girl.

With #2 - DH didnt want to know, and I did. We were now in our own home and i was decorating and wanted tonkow if i kept DD's things or not from her babytime or if i should go blue lol. Dh said it would ruin the surprise.. i told him we didnt even ask if DD was a girl or boy as we were more excited to see if the baby looked like me or DH (we are very different lol... me redhair and pale and DH is greek hehe).... so that was more of a surprise than gender for us... like a competition on whos genes were stronger! ahahahahahha


Anyhow .... We decided to find out.

My reasoning for DH was - we only get one life to experience, we didnt find out the first time, and now i wanted to experience seeing something ont he scan and getting excited earlier!!!

Also we were bad at names and i didnt want to fight over a gender;s name if we didnt need to lol... so finding out it was a boy was better so we only needed one name! (no we didnt use the same name from #1 if it was a boy either lol).

When we saw the little peepee i could tell how excited dh was to actually find out.
We kept is a secret from EVERYONE (sorry my belly group lol).. even our families dont know to this day we knew.

It was a wonderful special secret just for us