Last time i was preg i wanted it all the time, this time it's the opposite. But then last time we didn't have a child already and i didn't get glandular fever just before falling preg.

I have explained to my husband that i am tired, and also i feel resentful to him for not helping out as much as he should since i work full time too.

I do find quite often even though i don't feel like it i get into once we've started. But dh has a bad habit of coming to bed when i go to bed for sex and i am all ready to go to sleep. We've discussed that and i've said he can't do that when i am all set for bed. i've also told him he needs to just come out and tell me that's what he wants so i don't get "the hand" where his trying to suss out if i am interested or not which annoys me.

I do notice the tension builds up if we have had sex for a while so we try to do it at least twice a week to avoid fighting.