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  1. #1
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    Mar 2007
    Darwin, NT
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    Angry I'm just so angry...

    Hi,

    These hormones are doing my head in. I'm so angry all the time, or maybe just irritable. I cry at the drop of a hat and everything annoys me. First trimester i was so happy and feeling fine, apart from the nausea.

    Now it's almost like i need people to stay out of my way, even strangers annoy the crap out of me! I hate feeling like this!

    Anyone else like this too?

  2. #2
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    Apr 2007
    Living in the '70s
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    Geez those pesky hormones do some weird things.
    I am a little opposite to you Keira. Usually feel fine in the second trimester
    BUT don't come near me in the week or so after bubs is born because then everything sh*ts me and I am likely to bite your head off.
    Then again don't come near me when AF is due either, I am exactly the same.
    When I am pregnant I am usually much much nicer!!!

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    Mar 2007
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    Haha, gosh i would rather be like u, i still think i am nicer preg but everything that ****s me i internalise and then it just end up exploding at something stupid.

    Hmmm, anger management issues perhaps?!!

  4. #4
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    Nov 2006
    WA
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    i know how u feel Keira, i was shocking the littlest thing would get on my nerves and i would just snap, poor DP i thought he was going to leave me lol!! i cried all the time

    i also couldnt stand to be around my best friend i dont know y but i just never wanted to see her couldnt stan being around her!! for me third trimester was the worst.

  5. #5
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    Apr 2007
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    No, you're just pregnant.
    Me, I'd rather have everything sh*t me when pregnant and be nice all the other time - after all we spend most of lives NOT being pregnant. When you have a bump people can (or most do) make allowances!

  6. #6
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    Apr 2007
    SE QLD
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    I was like that. ppl at work gave me the *****s, as did strangers and even my own family! I got over it all of a sudden. I managed to hide mine as sarcasm tho. Its ok, you're pregnant and ppl will understand!

    Good luck with your pregnancy!

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    Mar 2007
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    awww.......i hope it gets better soon!

  8. #8
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    Jun 2007
    Dandenong Ranges, Melbourne.
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    oh my god!!! this is me all over. i have been the biggest ***** ever since i've been preg. dp started calling me 'Emma from big brother' for a while there cos i was backstabbing everyone we knew, whinging about everyone and i too, can't stand my best friend at the moment. everything she says to me absolutely sh8ts me and i've been avoiding her a lot. it's so bad. i get totally angry....but i have to tell you, in some ways it's been working for me...i put in an insurance claim and wasn't happy with the amount they gave me. i just sort of clicked and went psycho at them on the phone and wrote a letter and they've sent me out another cheque. probably to shut my pregnant mouth up!! anyway, you are not alone in your anger....

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    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2007
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    Definitely not alone... I must say I havent beenangry but havebeen feeling quite anti social and not keen to do much - which isnt like me.. and lots of small things get on my nerves some days... i blame it on hormones! when in doubt blame everything on hormones!!!

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    Jun 2007
    Dandenong Ranges, Melbourne.
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    bloody hormones!!

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    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2007
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    or as my friend calls them 'hor moans'

  12. #12
    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2007
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    he may well have meant 'whore' 'moans' but i am pretending he didnt mean that it is too mean!!! (he told me this when my dear friend, his wife, was preg and she was a little bit of a nightmare!!)

  13. #13
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    Jul 2006
    Brisbane
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    Keira, everything started to annoy me too!! I think part of it for me was strangers were too nosey!! So, I just got ****ty easily and would think to myself... and who the hell are you!!... what business is it of yours... lol. So, could be a combination of hormones and annoyance?? Take some deep breaths and punch a pillow!

  14. #14
    Billy Ocean Guest

    Keira,

    I've been feeling like this from the start pretty much. So, I understand how you feel.

    I share a house with a 21 year old male, who I thought wasn't too bad. Now, I want to kill him. He brings mud home with him from work on his clothes and shoes. Last night it was in the bottom of the shower and I burst into tears. All I want is a clean house. This morning I had to pick up a used bandaid that he'd left on the coffee table. It's revolting and it's making me homocidal!

    It's not only him, it's everyone. I speak with my parents every day and I've been so horrible to my Mum over the past couple of days that I told her not to call me during the week when I am down here in Torquay. Seems I am only happy when in Melbourne with family and out of my messy house, away from the piggy h/mate!

    My boyfriend is driving me insane. Sometimes I feel like I want to scream at him to just shut up and leave me alone.

    This isn't how I usually am. Like you, I can't stand to feel this way.

    I found it bad enough suffering depression and having to take medication through this pregnancy, let alone all this other BS!

    Maybe it will pass?

    Kate
    :hugs:

  15. #15
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    Jul 2007
    melbourne
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    Hi girls! Hang in there.. is "should" get better!

    i felt like this at the beginning... right up until 12 weeks.. now it's kinda getting better.. only go off my rocker occasionally, but it can be just a small thing that sets me off! poor DH doesn't know if he's coming or going sometimes... but it hasn't happened for a few days so i think it is passing...!

    although.. i do have a feeling that when i start to get heavier... it may come back!

  16. #16
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    May 2007
    Brisbane, Australia
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    Keira, I was (am still a little) the same. But with each day, it seems to get better and more tolerable!! There is relief in sight!!

    PS...Happy Second Trimester to me...etc etc...

  17. #17
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    Mar 2007
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    Thank god you girls are the same!!! I thought i was just suddenly miss mega b1tch!!!!!

    My DP asked me yesterday what my attitude problem was all about!!!!!!! How about i'm pregnant halfwit!!!!!! GRRRR!!!

    Its almost uncontrollable!! I used to be ok, and control myself, but now my outbursts just roll out my mouth like verbal diarrhea!!

    And it doesn't matter who it is, everyone ****s me!! Can't wait to have bubs and try to be "normal" again!!

    Thanks for sharing girls! I don't feel so bad now!

  18. #18
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    May 2007
    Brisbane, Australia
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    Keira, truly, I had the verbal diarrhoea going on too...but I guess I trained myself pretty quickly to stop and think. The stuff that came out of my mouth was just not in my nature at all!! I went Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon on DH's a$$....in a verbal sense. It was not cool!!

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