Hey Sarah,

Was your sister's friend on steroids to try to avoid long-term paralysis? This is what the OB has told me I should do as he thinks it is far better for me to take a high dose of steroids than to risk permanent damage. It is the high dose of steroids that causes the weight gain. I think I too would prefer to take the steroids than risk permanent damage to my face, although I am extremely concerned about weight gain.

You're right about the baby though - the OB reassured us that it poses absolutely NO risk whatsoever for him, nor does taking the steroids believe it or not - he said that what he would be prescribing is PERFECTLY safe.

I actually knew of someone last year who was PG and got Bells Palsy can you believe - I don't know her personally, but have seen her and a photo of her and I can honestly say that you COULD tell that there was something wrong with her - I guess it's that image that I had in my mind all along and I guess with everything there are degrees and extremes, so I'm hoping if I end up with it I won't look too bad. It's just such an awful worry to think that you might get it and look different IYKWIM....

Thanks for your help anyway Sarah - I appreciate you sticking your head in here to give me some info and support!