Does anyone else find it confusing trying to work out whats happening inside them or is it just me?

I've felt heartbeat which I just assumed was mine as wasn't particularily fast. Also didn't think it would be possible to "feel" this through the layers - especially as OB can find it difficult to locate on doppler at times

Also felt what I can best describe as bubbles - sometime just one or two and then other times they keep going for a minute or so. Had assumed the bubbles were how the kicks felt in the early days. They have changed slightly over the last week or so but still don't feel like an actual kick? I don't see my stomach move when it happens so not sure.

Poor hubbie is hanging out to be able feel the baby move/kick and I keep saying soon soon but don't think he believes me anymore