I'm with you becky23

One of ours sits on Jen's tum all the time (when she's in bed)

We told the ob on our last visit, and she said "oh how cute"


As for the poo, the toxins take 24hrs to be "poisonous" - so if you can get it out asap then it'll be fine

And that assumes you don't already have anti-bodies to the toxins anyway. We did a bit of reading up about it very early on


Or, as in our case, I do the cat trays etc... in fact, I do most of the cat stuff. Jen buys the cat food when shopping, and pats them - I feed and clean up after them... Which doesn't take long anyway, and they are my boys (got 2, brothers, and they'll be six on March 20th next year)