I just dont want to get set on it being a girl if she was only saying it cause she couldnt see a penis. If i had seen the pictures myself Id be feeling much more reassured so was hoping to see if DF can have a look at someone elses and tell me if it looked the same.
He said it just looked like a "V" shape between her legs?

I dont want to be wondering for the next 18-20 weeks but dont want unnecessary scans either and since Im low risk it would have to be a 4D scan at a private place. I dont want to pay $200+ just to find out the gender.
Not that it even really matters either way. I just dont want to be wondering and worrying everytime we get given girly stuff if its actually a boy!