A couple of times during the first tri I dreamt I was having a girl so I was convinced I was having a girl. I was so shocked when the amnio results came in as a boy. The funny thing is that whenever we went looking at baby clothes before we knew the sex I was always drawn to the boys clothes, so I guess deep down I did know it was a boy.
I've always had at least 3 dreams a night since i was a kid, but now they've become really bazaar... like the one where I dreamt i woke up and an alien was next to me using mind control to make me frozen and then touched my stomach (had that dream just before i found out i was pg). It was utterly terrifying cos i knew it was impregnating me with an alien x human baby!
And the other night I dreamt I went to afghanistan (to boost soldiers morale) and when they were taking me back to the airport they dropped me at the pub and were trying to get me to drink and my partner was there telling me no!.... Strange 2nd part to this is my mum phoned the day after and told me she'd been reading this great book about 2 girls forced into arranged marriages in afghanistan???!! odd.
And last night i had a dream my partner had a machine gun and was shooting at trucks....
it seems they all have a violent theme about them - perhaps i'll be giving birth to GI Joe??
I think dreams are really only the result of what are in the back of our minds...
Throughout my pregnancy I'm 15wks 4 days, I've felt it was a boy, only cos that chinese calendar says so, and cos i didnt have stong morning sickness...and I'm also not craving anything and basically lost most of my appetite, I'm usually a BIG FOOD lover! and now I'm just struggling to think of ideas for dinner/lunch cos nothing's appetising to me... Anyway maybe in the last week or so, I've been seriously asking myself, apart from a healthy baby, what do I really want? there's got a be some sorta preference...Either gender there are goods and bads...and I'd be bother happy and disappointed...I'd miss out on a little princess if I had a prince...or miss out on a little prince if I had a little princess...few nights ago I dreamt I had a little girl...I've never had dreams of gender before...but I strongly believe, that dream came by purely cos I suddenly focused on the gender so much! So I'm not gonna let a little dream get my hopes up...cos chances are if you've been talking yourself into thinking you're having a boy...you're gonna be dreaming about the same thing.
Ive always had odd dreams but they are getting weirder. They now feature family more than they did before and seem really real. before i was pregnant i dream of babies sex and everytime i did was a boy, one we kept the baby in our wardrobe and another my baby was like a shrunken version of its dad! But since ive been pregnant i had just one and we had a little girl and my OH left her on the sofa and my dad sat on her! So i think mines a girl, also i just felt instinctively like it was a girl. we were going to have sexing scan last week and this overwhelming feeling just hit me that it was my baby girl. Sadly couldnt see that day so were going to wait for a few more and then find out.
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