i didn't discuss the Epi until the pain became nasty and i was getting to the point of being "beyond" it and other pain relief wasn't working. i had the Ob explain what would happen, and then the anaesthetist - and we went ahead with it. i had a 'text book' epidural in that it took away the pain of the contractions, but not the sensation - was fantastic
keep in mind though - once you have the epi in, you're likely to need constant monitoring. you'll also be restricted to the bed either on your side or sitting up if possible. it's not really something you want if you're aiming for an active birth - it will likely lower your blood pressure, may slow your contractions, and prevents you using gravity to help the progress of your labour
i don't regret having the epidural when i had it - i'd been fairly restricted due to induction and constant monitoring bacause of pre-eclampsia - i also had other issues to take into consideration. i did, however, fight the urge to give into the "pain" until i had no choice as i was coming close to blacking out from lack of energy - my labour had slowed progress etc.
it's not something i'd enter into lightly as it does increase your chances of further intervention - but for what it does, it works damn well!
i had no nasty side effects from my epi but i was warned of some potential issues - so i would definitely discuss with your care providers early if you think this might be something you want - it's not something you want to be discussing at the height of labour - at least for me, due to it being an induction, they were able to turn the drip off and my contractions (which had already slowed due to bubba being stuck/not descending) slowed heaps more and i was able to have a rational discussion with the midwives (2) Ob and Ob registrar, and the anaethetist before it was administered.
research shows that an epidural shouldnt be used as pain relief.
it should how ever be used as an anathsetic(sp) for procedures
Like bg said it increases the need for monitoring and leaves you attached to a bed(therefor going against how your body is designed to labour)
I recommend that you read New Active Birth. It is a fantastic book for helping you to understand labour and things you can do to help labour progress and positions that help with pain relief. I read it before DS2 was born and had a fantastic labour with just gas for pain relief (and in reality, I probably didn't need that either).
I really wish I had read the book before my first labour, as I really wasn't prepared or informed enough. I ended up being talked into an epidural, which I have regretted ever since. It caused a whole cascade of interventions, and I still have some of the effects as a result. Having since experienced labour without an epidural, I regret having had one the first time even more.
I think epidurals can be really helpful in some circumstances, such as during long, complicated labours. But I think our fear of pain causes them to be overused, and things like optimal positioning and staying active should really be tried first. Epidurals do increase the risk of complications such as foetal distress, which then often results in forceps, vacuum extraction or c-section. Forceps or ventouse are nearly always going to result in tearing and/or episiotomy and therefore stitches, and obviously c/s results in stitches too. It might be that you experience less pain during the labour, but then more afterwards! And more serious damage can be done by pushing while lying on your back without being able to feel things properly - pelvic floor damage and haemorrhoids to name a couple.
I don't write this to scare you, or to try and convince you not to have an epidural. Rather I am hoping that by sharing my experience I can help you to explore your options and be aware of the things that the hospital might not tell you. GL hun.
Why don't you check out Calmbirth or Hypnobirthing classes? There are other options than simply 'epi or not'.
No one is very good with pain, and there is pain in labour like it or not , but it is a different kind. Trust me.
If you can try to change your approach to pain and labour and not fear it too much you may not need feel the need for an epi at all.
I HATE needles so much I chose the pain over the needle in the back..and it wasn't that horrible after all
I had to be induced because i was 9 days over and there was very little fluid around the baby. My contractions started at 1am and increased really quickly at 4am there was really no break in between them, I had no sleep because the lady in the bed next to me snored all night. At 6 they took me to the birthing suite and I had a shower, by 6:30 I couldnt talk or function I was exhausted, they checked how far dilated i was at 7am and I was 2cm. I ended up having an epidural after that and had to stay on the bed to be monitored I did not mind this at all I was really relaxed after this and thoroughly enjoyed the experience, my husband and I had some great conversations. I could feel the contractions but there was no pain. At 11am they checked how far dilated I was because the baby was in distress and they said I might need a c section. When they checked the babies head was right there and they told me to start pushing. 9 mins later she was born. I could not feel when to push because I was so overwealmed that my baby was going to be born so the nurses felt my belly for the contractions and told me when to push. I had to have an episiotomy because they had to get her out fast, but didnt feel any stitching up coz of epidural.
In my honest opinion I would do it again tomorrow. It does not matter how your baby is born as long as they are safe and well.
I did not feel the needle go in I just remember feeling **** then unreal.
Like I said I really enjoyed my birth and I dont care what people think of me for having drugs in labour. As far as we can tell Georgia had no side effects from the epidural.
It is not for everyone and there are risks involved which will be explained to you anyway. Just go in there well researched and you will know at the time.
I hope it all goes well.
I was terrified of having an epidural as I was freaked out about them hitting my spine and it not working and I HATE needles.
Anyway - had to have an emergency, non-laboring section and so had no chioice. It went in first time, no pain getting it in and it worked instantly so I was able to have the section quickly.
Honestly I was obsessed with how I didnt want an epidural as I was so scared of it! Ended up being the least of our worries!
I would be surprised if any hospital would expect you to make that decision before you actually needed the epi though. Are you sure this is right for you hospital? I would check it out because I would be sure that you wont need to make the decision until you are in labor. Good to gather information about it before hand though so you know what you are saying yes/no to.
I think aim not to have one by looking at ways of managing your labour through calmbirthing/hypnobirthing or a book that I read by Juju Sundin.
Have a few things up your sleeve.
And be aware of the risks of having one. It can make pushing the baby out harder because you can't feel as much and restricts your birthing positions making it more likely you will have to try to push baby out flat on your back. That also means that interventions such as forceps or ventouse are more likely.
Having said all that, I found the thought of an epidural immensely comforting. And in the end it was great. I had a very long prelabour/labour meaning I had very little sleep in three days plus DD was a posterior baby. I was exhausted and wanted a break from the pain and the chance to rest which is EXACTLY what the epidural gave me.
I needed help pushing DD out but I think that was more down to her position than the epidural and I did end up with forceps but only two tiny stitches.
So my advice again is to do everything you can to equip yourself for labour with some pain management techniques but to see the epidural as a last and very good, weapon in your arsenal if you need one.
FWIW, my ob reckons it's normally the length of the labour that determines whether you will choose to have an epidural or not and I agree. The problem is that no-one can tell you beforehand how long your labour will be hence it will always be an unknown until the actual day(s).
I would clarify with the hospital whether you need to decide beforehand - that doesn't seem right to me. I certainly didn't.
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