you can 'accidentally' miss your scan appointments if you don't want to do them. Personally, I loved any chance to meet my baby again, but every 4 weeks seems a bit OTT.

As for weight & conception, I'm not small either. I know that weight (and the typical diet that goes with it) has some big implications for hormone ratios. The month I cut out sugar was the month Jack's transfer worked. I wish I could say with certainty if that was the cause, but I can't. I can say that for the first time in months, I didn't have multiple follicles. I know for making baby #2, my diet is going to be significantly changed (and hopefully some weight loss too...).