Thanks guys i am feeling slightly better today. I have had a cold and DD is teething so along with all of this, still working and being pg i just feel a bit snowed under. I cried so much yesterday i dont think i have any tears left for today!! DH has been very good, it's his birthday today but instead of been spoilt he is spoiling me. My mum is also popping in today cos i was in tears when i spoke to her yesterday so a chat with her will do me good i'm sure.