BellewithBump.
I put on 14kg by 32 weeks and yes felt like a fatty too... well still do but what can you do hey? I can lose the weight after Jnr is born - no point being risky and possibly hurting baby by trying to loose the weight.
I am the same in the sweet department. Especially in the last 2 weeks (when i have been on mat leave) and eating chocolate like it is running out of the world! lol oh well.
I can see the weight but no one else seems to.

I think the best thing to do is not weight yourself. I weighed myself at 12, 18 and 32 weeks and that was it. The figure on the scale tells us nothing .. as long as bub is happy.