You girls both make great points. Wish you had been around when I was pregnant.
On another side of the coin though, I suffered really really badly from both ante and post natal depression. The AND wasn't diagnosed until I was 30 weeks. Even though I had to go to work full time, I stopped doing everything else I loved. I wasn't conscious of it though and didn't necessarily think there was anything wrong with me.
If it is worrying you Rachel ring the local community health centre. There is always someone there you can just sound off IYKWIM?
If it isn't worrying you then just enjoy building a lovely little coccoon for your budding family.
It matters not what others think, but sometimes the people closest to us have a feeling not a thought.