not very good at doing that...

Last time with mr no2 I found out and dh and I were the only ones to know and that worked out terribly as dh mistakenly told the skids by saying he's going to be happy or something like that and they jumped on it like oh so we're having a brother. silly man.
Thats what he wants to do is find out but not tell anyone so I reminded him of what happened and he said I wont do it again but I know I couldnt trust that.
Maybe go and leave him at work so he cant know??? No I wouldnt be that cruel.