First Timer Questions

[StrawberryMumma]

Hi Nell

I'm sure you will get some fantastic advice from everyone here.

I had my first bub a couple of months ago and had a fantastic experience (uncomfortable and a bit painful- yes..but still really great)..
I think things to be aware of is- block your ears if you are hearing too many negative labour stories. It is good to hear a variety of different experiences, but don't get weighed down with people's bad experiences. Labour is amazing, remember that, YOU can do it, and let your body just do what it does naturally. Don't be fearful- that does nothing. Don't have too many expectations (esp with pain relief) And focus on the amazing way that you are bringing your beautiful baby into the world.
Also, labour at home a long as you can. This was the key in my labour. I did what I wanted. Felt how I wanted to feel. I only went to hossy 45 mins before DD was born and it meant that the labour went just how my body wanted it to go.

You will do great. There is no right or wrong way to labour and remember a safe bubby and mum is the outcome that matters.