Are you going to find out the sex at this scan??
Personally, I'd wait. If you're having more scans then I'd just say that they can come to a later scan.
Mum came to DS2's 20wk scan when we found out he was very sick. I think that was traumatic for her but then it was for us too. It helped us that she was there. She was then able to do the phone calls etc to family as we werent up to it. Later on, she was there at his birth. For us, it was fine that she was there. She was also there for DS1's 20wk scan.
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