Ok well I bit the bullet and spoke to her yesterday and it went better than I expected. She came around to see my mother and she was the one who broached the subject first, asking how my ultrasound went. I told her that everything was looking good and that it was a girl and she said that they will find out the results of the testing and the sex of their little one on Tuesday. I then told her that I was feeling rather guilty about my own bub being healthy, or more to the point, me not having the problems that they have faced and she said why? I was at a loss for words. She then said even though it was still heartbreaking to have lost their baby she said she wouldn't want me to feel bad because of my baby being healthy. I told her that I feel sad about their baby and that seemed to be enough. I also told her I didnt want to be one of those people that said "It's for the best" or "You can try again" and she said that she had already heard it and it doesnt make things any easier.

Nicole