My doctor has barely said much he just tells me there's not much I can do just get an amnio if I want not really reassuring or helps me much so I am going to ask him to refer me to an ob because I feel in the dark about the whole situation the only thing that has eased my mind is talking to girls on here they have given me more information then my doctor, I beleive it's great that some people can bring a ds and live happy lives but I'm 19 and having a baby was going to be tough on me as it is due to money etc and I don't think I'd be steph enough and have the mental capacity for that it would be very hard and very upsetting. I've been doing research comparing my scan to that of a ds and I don't see why my chances are so high my nuchal isnt that thick I don't think so I'm just trying to stay positive so I can get through the weeks till the annio. I've done research on the risks and I'm quite nervous about having a big needle in my stomach I don't like needles at all. Thank you for your words !