I wouldn't worry about her and concentrate on yourself. My mum has never been involved in any of my pregnancies and still doesn't have much to do with my kids. My brother's kids on the other hand she sees all the time. I have had to accept that she will never show much attention to my lot and just get on with things.

It is only later that she will realise what she has missed out on by not being a grandmother to all her grandchildren.