Hi, last week we found out that we are having a baby girl, which I am thrilled about and have already named, lol ( My first baby ). My problem is that my hubby already has a daughter to his previous wife and really wanted a boy. Before we found out he was really supportive and kept talking about the things he was going to do with his son and now it's like he's lost interest in having a baby all together. It's really upsetting. The dr said he was 90% sure that it's a girl so hubby is desperately hanging on to the other 10% that it could be a boy but now says that we'll have another one straight away if this one is definately a girl. I'm not sure what to do or how to feel. I get upset quite easily at the moment which i'm sure is just the hormones. I've had a really bad pregnancy to date and the thought of doing it again so soon is not very appealing, lol and I'd hate to think what would happen if we had another girl. Has anyone else's hubby's acted like this ? My ob said that it's just the disappointment at the moment that's talking and that closer to the date he'll start to get excited again and once bub is here, she'll be his little girl. I'd love to hear if anyone else has gone through this.
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