ROFLMAO! Do you colour co-ordinate or should I say co-ordinate by design your underwear I never wore a soft cup bra...I don't even know what they are (I am assuming with padding or do you mean without lace?) If you are wearing wire bra's I would give them a miss coz they are supposed to be bad when lactating. From memory I ended up buyin maternity bra's towards the end of my pregnancy coz I didn't have any wireless bra's and because they had gotten so big I had to go up sizes too! The things are poor boobies go through LOL! The concrete thing, well um hate to say it they will probably stay that way till a few weeks after you've had bubs...well mine did anyway.

*hugs*
Cailin