Trav - Thanks for the hugs, dont think you are being selfish, yet honestly I don't think DF is being selfish either, just nervous and scared. We all want to feel closeness with our partners and I dont blame you feeling the way you do. Especially when TTC that is all it feels like we are doing, and then to come to barely any intimacy or no intimacy at all would raise questions. it is totally understandable. Maybe take her away on a romantic weekend or a nice romantic dinner and try and get back some of that togetherness. I still believe that she has some fears of losing this baby which is holding her back from you. Try and talk to her about her concerns and try and reasssure her that you will be gentle and careful, if this is really what she is worried about. If she is worried about DTD, then maybe get her to talk to her GP and you be there with her and let her GP ease her mind. GL hun.
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