Mel and squidipa, thanks so much for the info. I do a feel a bit better about things.

Re the scales...unfortunately the GP weighed me at like 12DPO and again now. So I have definitely gained that 20kgs. I think the OB's scale was stuffed! If only it was the other way around!! LOL

Mel, re the FB photos...I also looked at them and thought well I have definitely chubbed up, but by 20kgs?! Really messes with your head, I tell ya!

What I have also been thinking about is how they say that average weight gain is around 20kgs when pregnant. Now I am 6ft tall and big boned to boot. One would think that I should be given a bit more "room to move" that someone who is 5ft, for example? But perhaps I just need to suck it up and stop trying to find excuses hahaha

Thanks again ladies. You are wonderful! x