No sex drive (TMI)

[first_time_mummy]

lol, id be too scared to put in a big effort session lol, cause i know he'll expect it all the time then, and normal sex would be too 'boring'.

We won a romantic getaway weekend through our local show, and so we are booked into this stone cottage on a voineyard for a weekend.

Im so scared ill be expected to dtd all weekend. Its out near where my parents live, and so i was hoping to visit my mum for most of the time, and just go back to the cottage to basically sleep lol

[willow5]

Just reading through the posts, I'm with you first_time_mummy, I have had NO sexdrive from almost day 1. Although I was sick from 6weeks until 15weeks. But even now that I'm not throwing up my sex drive doesn't seem to have returned.

I still have trouble putting some foods in my mouth that I used to LOVE, so I completely understand your aversion to anything 'oral' ..LOL
Hormones are amazing but sometimes cruel things!! It will all settle down eventually and your DP sounds like he understands, unfortunately having crazy hormones doesn't help you see how understanding he is sometimes and they can make you paranoid about thing you don't need to worry about in the end.

Hang in there you're not alone

[willow5]

Oh yeah ...I hope you enjoy the weekend away and don't feel too pressured.

...I think I'd be scared to do the big effrot session too just in case it backfired and he expected it all the time

[first_time_mummy]

lol, thanks willow5...thats what ive been worried bout lol

But im sure all with go well, and ill enjoy the weekend no matter what :P