Well, was informed today that i will be booked in for surgery 6 weeks after baby is born! I am booked in for 2 types of biopsies (sp) on the 17th and that will give them a clearer picture on what to do from there.
It's very reassuring to know that bubs is leap frogging around in there, and keeping me up all hours of the night. And he is a dead set blessing... cause without him we would not have become aware to this, i mean you don't always go to the GP if you have abnormal bleeding (not pregnant). So i'm really lucky!
So now i an hoping like hell that bub comes on his own and without a C-secion... not sure how anyone could handel 2 ops in 6 weeks. But if not i'm sure we will have 100's of baby sitter all waiting their turn!
Smudge... i think i am so positive cause i know from past experience with mum, sometimes the mind can help you alot.... or hinder you! I am 100% sure DH is not coping as well, he refuses to speak with me about it! Not sure why, and has only spoken to 1 person about it and he was in tears... this the whole experience (baby, cancer and the fact that we tried for so long to get pregnant) is scaring him!
LisaBear... Thanks so much for sharing your experience - definatly not nice as a newlywed! I think it's the waiting and the unknown thats the worst... would have rathered they kept this news to them selves and told me after baby was born. But hey - can't change the past now!
Love Kirby
ps... will post again after the 17th when i know more
just wanted to wish you all the luck you need! You're right, staying positive is sooo important, as is letting out the hurt you feel ( I mean don't ignore that bit, you're bound to be scared at times aswell but thats also logical and okay)
I wish you an uneventfull rest of your pregnancy and a "easy" birth, so you are well enough to enjoy you bub and strong enough to endure the procedures needed!
... not sure how anyone could handel 2 ops in 6 weeks. But if not i'm sure we will have 100's of baby sitter all waiting their turn!
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