I am so sorry for the loss of your babies. i am a high risk preg too after pre-term labour with DS plus lots of issues with his heart and other preg complications.

Have you asked your new OB about monitoring before deciding to go for the stitch? I am sure you could ring for a discussion on this rather than waiting for an appointment. It would worry you so much if you went ahead and were not sure it was the right thing to do.

Good luck with your decision.