Well if they do, they need something else more exciting to think about hun
With Darcy I went private. Had an Ob, and went to a private hossy. Paid a fortune for antenatal classes, never met a single midwife until I went into labour. Yep I got my private room, but the food was still hospital food and I had to pay extra for a paediatrician - even though I didn't think I really needed one - that was the policy. I love my Ob and would probably have done the same this time but situations were forced.
We moved to the country - there is no Ob here, let alone a private hossy for 200kms. So I'm in the middy program. It has met all my needs. They are proactive and caring about active birth and gentle parenting. True most of the girls here I trained with or was trained by, but I've met them, before I go into labour and am anxious. I don't have to worry about a rapport being built when I am at my most vulnerable. I still get my single room - yes it has a shared bathroom - but who cares?? I haven't got a private Ob but the locums here are fantastic.
I wish I'd done it this way last time. It lets me spend my money where I should/prefer and as a private patient, I am still supporting my local hossy rather than relying on medicare


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Learn to be confident in your decisions and to hell with everyone else - this is your baby, you're the mum and it is always going to be your call.

Mel, that is fricking ridiculous! That has made me so incredibly cross to read! Have they given an explanation for such an outlandish rule? Grrr, how shocking.

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