CeeCee - we didn't have the 12w NT scan either, as we are the same, we would never terminate regardless. But the OB still did his own scan which had some measurements and things in it to make sure bubs is growing properly etc. (The OB did have a quick look himself at the neckfold and said it looked ok to him.. so i'm hoping he's right!)

I was happy to have the 19w scan as I think it's important to know whether the baby is healthy or may require treatment when born etc. You'll enjoy seeing bubs too. In fact I saw the scan more as getting a look at bubs than looking to make sure its ok

Hope the rest of your pg goes smoothly!