SPD?

[PumpkinZulu]

I can't figure out if this is 'normal' pregnancy aches and pains or something I should follow up. With DD I had this level of pain and discomfort, but near the end, not halfway through! My lower bak aches and aches and aches, my hips hurt and often it hurts to lie in bed or roll over, my vagina area aches and feels tender and under a lot of pressure, and it is getting increasingly difficult to lift my legs (say to put on a pair of pants, it's getting difficult...with DD by the end DH had to our my pants on for me!) and I have really terrible restless legs. I also have a fair bit of pain trying to part my legs past a point, and my hips pop often. I'm measuring 3 weeks ahead at the moment so feeling a bit large lol.

Tonight something very embarrassing happened which made me go wtf?? DH and I were having an argument and I yelled at him, in doing so, I completely wet my pants. This has NEVER happened to me before. Since having DD sometimes if I laugh too hard, or sneeze more than 3 times in a row I might lose a few drops, but tonight I completely wet my pants. I've decided to make a super conscious effort to do my PF exercises more often now, but it did freak me out that it's all of a sudden so weak!

My midwife is sending me a tubigrib so I really hope that relieves some of this pain. How do I follow this up if I do think it's something more than just feeling a bit sore?