Hi Lindie

There are some good suggestions from the other posts but here is my thoughts.
You should get your husband to send you to a luxury health resort for a few months. Perhaps somewhere near Fiji. You could have a massage and a herbal spa everyday. Your bed will be sprinkled with fresh rose petals every night. There will be a team of top chefs waiting to cook for you. A staff of 15 people will be there to pamper you and grant your every desire. You will have the use of a luxury car with a driver to take you sightseeing.

Or you could try taking a couple of panadeine.