Deep down I felt unattached pretty much the whole way through my pg. I didnt make my first appointment until I was 13 wks along and even with the scans and h/b's, it was amazing to hear and see them but it still never felt real until I was holding him in my arms. For me I think it was because he wasn't planned plus the stress of a m/c the year before. It is a very common feeling so try not to worry too much about it. Everything will change once you see and hold your bubba. Good luck with the rest of your pg!!