I got my first really clear kick at 16 weeks, 3 days. Just lying in bed in the morning talking to my belly and just being silly, I jiggled my belly with my hand and went 'helloo? anyone in there?!' and was kicked hard enough that I felt it through my belly on my hand! Try as I might to move, jiggle, deep breathe etc. to inspire another kick there was just the one. I then felt nothing for 4 days which really freaked me out! I understand some women don't feel anything until 20 weeks or so, but hopefully you won't have to wait that long.