we have gathered a lot of stuff - through family and friends (cot, clothes, highchair, car seat etc) and it is all sitting in the room that will be the nursery..... DH has started sanding back the cot and I will do the rocking chair he bought me off ebay for xmas, but I don't think we will be ready to actually set up for quite a while. I so want to but also don't want to iykwim???? is still feels kind of early!