We found out and told everyone each time, I knew I'd slip up at some stage otherwise LOL! Everyone we knew was happy to know the gender early except our next-door neighbour, but his wife always asked me on the sly ha ha! We tried to keep it secret from him each time, but with DD one of our other neighbours told him, not realising he didn't want to know!

It is TOTALLY up to you. Don't feel guilty for saying "Yes we know, but we're not sharing with anyone". Most people will just leave it there and if they don't, just say too bad in a teasing tone, then they shouldn't take offense. We didn't share our babies names, that was one thing we kept secret. FIL would try and trick me into telling him all the time, but I never fell for it .