Are you telling people the gender?

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Mumintraining thanks for making me smile!

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For us, it's not big deal whether other people want to know or not. DH & I always find out, if people want to know we'll tell them. If they don't want to know, we won't tell them. It's our baby, not theirs, so it's not really a big thing for them whether it's a girl or boy whereas it is for dh & I.
Well that's my opinion anyway.