Oh hun...

I don't really have any advice... but I feel for you! It must be so hard at this stage to decide what the right decision is for bub.. .

I went 13 days over with my DS1 & went into spontaneous labour. Ds2 was induced at 40+10.

DD was the interesting one though, she was due on 1/3 by USS dates, my GP thought maybe 2 weeks earlier. She was born on 3/3 - so hosp thought she was right on time... but she was brown, wrinkeld, peeling & had such long fingernails.. I have no idea how overdue she was but I am guessing at least 2 weeks minimum. Compared to DS1 who looked perfectly cooked & he was supposedly 13 days late...

I don't know if that story is really of any help, I have never been in quite the situation you are now... but they do say that babies come in their own time when they are ready.

There's a thread here which is really interesting you might want to check it out. In the meantime at least you sound as though you have a great Ob and the monitoring is good.

I guess you are trying all the natural induction methods?

Good luck