..to make things worse, DH's parents are visiting this weekend from interstate and i'm feeling PRESSURE to have the baby before they leave.. they're also talking about extending their trip if i don't have the baby before then... but they can only extend it for a few more days, and there's still no guarantee i'll have had the baby by then!! all of their other grandchildren have been born early by elective induction or c-section, so i think they also think i'm a lunatic for letting it "go on" this long, and don't understand why i don't just hurry up and get induced!!
Oh, that does make it hard... I would arm myself with as much info as possible!

If your Ob is happy & bub is healthy there is no reason to put either of you through an induction. But you already know that...try not to let them make you feel too pressured.

Good luck, hope it happens for you soon