I did not go over at all, but I had 5 days of pre labour with DD1 and no pre labour with DD2. I was expecting to have pre labour but all I got was a show and 10 hours later a sharp pain at 1am that got me out of bed, contractions started at 2am, she was born by 4.30am. My point is you may not get pre labour at all. Personally I would avoid induction to a point. Can you go in for daily monitoring? Plus you could discuss the most gentle form of induction like the gel only. YOu really might not need much to get things happening.

Good luck....and listen to your instincts hun!!! You are the mum, not the in laws or anyone else