Thanks all , i really dont want to be induced i would much rather go on my own , but i jusrt have not help after my mum leaves. And my Son is only 18 months so he is still a baby and pretty needy.

We are also moving house in 2 weeks so i hope that withthe stress of that i might go on time if not to much after my DD.

Thank you for your replys and i dont want to sound selfish at all wanting to be induced i just need that support so hwen she leaves i will feel much better about being along with 2 children and no family or friends to help out.

Thanks