I was told DD1 was a big baby and I had a small pelvis and the two didn't go together. She ended up being 7lb, 13 oz, 49 cms long and was a forceps delivery. She was born four days earlier than her EDD.

Same situation with DD2 - told big baby, measuring way ahead on dates. I ignored them. Told the on we weren't going to be discussing size, it was no benefit to me. She was 9lb 2oz, 51 cms and no forceps. I think that my frame of mind was different because other than the natural concerns of birthing a large baby, I ignored the talk that worried me first time around and ultimately affected my frame of mind about my ability to give birth.