Hey there...I hear you loud and clear. I used a combination of daily coloxyl (stool softner - no tummy pains with cause it doesn't contain senna), ointment called protesedyl (sp?) very good - much better than anusol and an inflatable donut! These things combined really helped and I feel as though I can get through the labor now whereas 3 weeks ago - I was petrified! :0
Wishing you all the best hun,
Rach xx