I think the most obvious fact here is that there are so many options and so many opinions that you've just got to research and work out what sounds most appropriate for you. The best advice I was given was not shut down any of your options beforehand and to have all the information possible. You may get in there and realise that you're fine and can cope without anything (that's what I'm hoping for myself the second time around ) or you may find that something you thought you wouldn't want is exactly what you need. Preparation and information are your best friend!
Nelle: I think you're right about the unplanned intervention! Heehee, I just know my weaknesses too darn well and it makes that needle so very tempting . But here's hoping it wont be needed this time round!
i regret pain relief bigtime! the peth knocked me out for most of my labour, im talking hours, i then had an epi which lead to an episotomy which as kelly said can have longterm effects! it took ages to recover from, probably longer than those who had c/s, sex was painfull for almost a year, i could feel where i had the epi in my back for about 12 months. not to mention things were foggy after the birth from the peth- my biggest regret, not having clear mind, forgetting those preciuos moments after the birth.
this time im having a doula, reading, informing myself of best postions, positive thinking will be using different pain relief such as massage, sterile water injections etc.
i understand that the epidural is the way for some but your lucky if you get away without further intervention. just remember that 'cascade of intervention' that associated with things such as epis.
) or you may find that something you thought you wouldn't want is exactly what you need. Preparation and information are your best friend!
. But here's hoping it wont be needed this time round!
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