I have been getting little comments from others as well as my Ob about #3 being unpredictable. Is this so?

Im not sure whats more frustrating, waiting for the positive result or waiting for contractions to start .

Ive been saying to my Ob for the last 3 weeks that im sure im going to go early with no sign of disagreeing so ive assumed he agreed with me but obviously he cant commit to a yes on that sort of thing. In saying all that though he has never told me that bub is actually engaged and now im due.

My cervix seems high (higher than norm) but soft, im always getting back aches and never did with the other 2 so thats something new for me. I thought last friday that things were happening because i had consistant cramping for and hour and half but they actually felt more like i needed to go to the loo but didnt, iykwim. The top of my placenta is really painful at night, more so when lying on my left side. This is another thing i never got with the other 2. Bub is constanty moving in and out of my pelvic area even this late. Again, i didnt get this with the other 2. Ive had increased CM but that was a few weeks ago.

It seems this kid does whatever it wants and not what its supposed to be doing Lol. She was breech at 37wks but then turned for the next app. My ob said #3 wont necessarily come early and that its not abnormal for it not to be engaged yet. WHY????????
If everything is so loose in there due to 2 other kids living in there then i would of thought there wouldnt be much holding it up, so this would force it down, not up hey.

For those of you who have had bub #3, what was different compared to the first 2. Ive even got DD now saying to me 'i want my little sister out now'. To cute. She wont be thinking that when she is constantly woken at night like the rest of us Lol.

Im going mental waiting so just ignore me if you like.