Hi Tara
Your BP is a little too high and the problems with your vision would give me cause for concern. Considering that you are allergic to so many drugs and because you are 39+ weeks I find it quite strange that they won't induce you. I think for your next pregnancy you should find a mew OB it was very naughty of them to say that you are threatening your baby’s life, and in fact you could say the same thing to them for not inducing you. The only thing I can advise is to keep nagging them for an induction and if they refuse ask them why they are refusing.
If I can be of any more help please let me know