I have a close friend with a 6 month old boy who wasn't done. When I asked her about whether he was or not she was appalled that I asked - saying it was barbaric. I now feel a bit nervous about how she will react to me if we did go ahead with it. If we have a boy that is!!! I know that it is our choice but we don't need that added pressure or tension from our friends. I wish I hadn't asked her now