There you go Kanda - it happens a lot! Like the others have said, some people just hide their babies well!

People are idiots too (intolerant pregnant me thinks this a lot! ). With Riv, one lady asked if anything was wrong because I was so small, and it was hard not to worry.

I carried Riv a bit more towards my spine (think perhaps because I tend to stand up straight, and my tummy muscles are pulled in). I wasn't noticeably pregnant til at least 21 weeks, pretty flat til then. I just carried him far back! And trust me, at 9.4lb, he wasn't small.

So - moral of the story is, how you look is probably irrelevant to how big bub is!

P.S. Oh, and keep moisturising your tum, because at some stage, bub might have to go somewhere - in the last couple of weeks I went POP! And was very glad I'd bothered to keep the skin nice and moist. A lot has to do with genes, but I reckon it coulda been a lot worse!