How to know how far dilated you are?

[Jellymaker]

Hi Ladies,

I agree that this is a fascinating post but was suprised at the number of women who said they had never felt 'inside' before. I think that self examination 'up there' is akin to breast self examination and going for a skin scan. I think it is very important to know what is 'normal' so that you will notice any changes later on.
I encourage all women to check themselves regularly or even ask their partner if anything ever feels different (since my hubbies fingers are longer than mine LOL)
I knew what my cervix felt like pre-pregnancy because of TTC and still check myself regularly for any progress. (am 33 weeks)
Dont be ashamed ladies! If you can't do it in the privacy of your own shower with your own fingers then I find it amusing that we let doctors, midwives, partners etc, cop an eyeful instead.

[Cass72]

Dont be ashamed ladies! If you can't do it in the privacy of your own shower with your own fingers then I find it amusing that we let doctors, midwives, partners etc, cop an eyeful instead.

That just cracks me up!!! How true is it. From the moment you go into labour to when you leave the hospital you've lifted your skirts and proudly displayed your bits to just about everyone....even the poor tea lady might accidently cop an eyeful!!